As you have probably figured out by now, I’m not afraid to make bold statements or ask questions that may make you uncomfortable.
It should also be pretty obvious why I do it.
It’s not just because I am an expert at what I do and I know how to help women make their dreams come true.
It’s because I am a woman who endured years of pain, loss, and unnecessary misery because I didn’t know how to get out of my own way, and perhaps even more importantly, how to ask better questions.
Seriously, questions like “why me?” or “when is IT going to happen?” are pointless.
I encourage you this week to ask the best question you can possibly ask, before you start another treatment cycle or month trying to conceive naturally.
I am posing the question because there is no point in spending thousands of dollars and precious emotional capital on more fertility treatment, if you are just going approach the next month or cycle the exact same way.
It is insane to do the exact same thing over and over again, yet expect a different result.
Smart women are strategic and stop overlooking the obvious.
Yes, your doctor may change up your protocol.
Yes, you may adjust your diet.
Yes, you may try new supplements and alternative medicine.
Yes, you may be more vigilant in tracking your ovulation.
All of those things are awesome.
But you’ve got to understand there is one obvious constant in all of this: YOU.
Particularly the part of YOU that thinks, believes, and chooses.
Your thoughts, beliefs, and choices dictate your results.
So, here is the question:
How will YOU be different?
If you aren’t getting the results you desire, you simply can’t afford to ignore this question.
Ask it…and keep asking it.
Having the guts to ask this question means you can set yourself up for an entirely different experience and in the end, different results.
I love and believe in you enough to give it to you straight:
Change your mind, change your results.
Lots of love,