EP145 Smart Mama Move: Learn HOW To Think

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HOW you think is a critical aspect of your success on this journey. The crazy thing is very few of us were taught HOW to think. More often than not, we were taught WHAT to think. Huge difference! Let me teach you some beginning steps for getting out of the matrix of WHAT to think, […]

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Transcript:
Hey Gorgeous, if you want success on your fertility journey, you’ve got to have the mindset for it. It’s time to kick fear, negativity, doubt, shame, jealousy, and the whole clown car of low vibe fertility journey BS to the curb. I’m your host, Roseanne Austin, fertility mindset master, former prosecutor and recovering type A control freak perfectionist.

I use the power of mindset to get pregnant naturally and have my baby boy at 43. Despite years of fertility treatment failure, I help women across the globe beat the odds on their fertility journey just like I did. Get ready for a quick hit of confidence, joy, feminine, badassery, and loads of hell Yes.

For your fertility journey. It’s time to get fearless, baby fearlessly fertile. Let’s do this. Welcome to the Fearlessly Fertile Podcast, episode 145. Smart Mama. Move. Learn how to think. Hey loves, oh man, we are heading straight for the end of another year, and there is no better time than the present to get your ass ready for making the new year everything you want it to be.

That’s why I’m coming at you hard and fast. With more smart mama moves and inspiring interviews with my ladies. It’s all about getting it into that skull of yours, that not only is it possible for you to have what you desire, it can come to you with 10, 000 times less struggle. Then you are currently engaging it.

I’m not saying this shit is easy. But it is simple and damn straight worth it. Let’s be honest. Taking the easy road is for do nothings and that isn’t you. No fucking way. You would not be the list maker, party planner, and all around badass bitch that you are if that was the case. You’ve got to quit playing small and fucking around with average.

Or just enough. It’s disingenuous and gross. Subs I know, because I used to fuck around with that nonsense. What you have to know is that in this place, girl, this community, you get to sashay all day in the gloriousness of bigger belief than your current circumstances might indicate. What you want is big, bold, and top of the line, sister.

It’s not chump change bullshit. And it’s with that in mind that we’re gonna get this started. Because I wanna talk to you. About a subject that most of us don’t really talk about. We’re going to talk about how to think. And I hope you paid close attention to what I just said. This is about how to think, not what to think.

There’s a huge distinction. Most of us have been taught a lot about what to think, but a seldom few have been taught how to think. When we look at how to think, we’re really looking literally at your thinking process and the framework or paradigm within which you process the information that shows up in your life.

Do you see yourself as empowered, or do you see yourself as a victim of a mean, cruel world that’s just out to getcha? Do you see through a lens of lack and scarcity, and I did a very long three episode series on lack and scarcity. So if you have any questions about what that is, go back and scroll through the list of podcasts and you’ll get a really good basic education on what lack and scarcity is.

Is your first reaction to be scared when new things come into your life or are you excited by them? Do you honestly believe that the things you desire are possible? I mean really possible. Not some fairytale shit that even you blow off because you don’t take it seriously. Do you actually believe that what you desire is possible?

Does what other people think weigh heavily in your decisions? Does fear of what friends, family, or other people in your life think skew your decision making toward the minuscule and mediocre? Do you tend to look at what you stand to lose versus what you stand to gain when evaluating opportunities? Do price tags alone dictate what you think you want?

Do you tend to be a, I’ll believe it when I see it kind of person versus Thinking from a place of positive possibility. Do you make it wrong to have what you want? Do you believe hard work is required to get what you want as opposed to consistent work? Do you have a hardcore need to be right? At the expense of seeing whole truth?

There are loads of other patterns we can look at, but what I’m giving you are some examples of patterns, of thought, and ways that you might be presently viewing the world. Because what we’re talking about is learning how to think, and you’ve got to catch your own patterns to begin to evaluate how you think.

The examples that I’ve given are rooted In a matrix of underlying beliefs that if we trace them back to their origins are largely set up to disconnect us from our true power, they shame the side of us that thinks beyond our current circumstances. Labeling them as foolish, dreamer, nonsense. But here’s something you have to consider if you’re intellectually honest.

What if none of that is actually true? Just because a lot of people say it, your family says it, and generations past have said it, doesn’t make shit true. The number of times a lie is repeated doesn’t somehow increase its veracity. It is foundationally still a fucking lie. We see this shit in the media all the time.

It doesn’t matter how many times you hear that 2 plus 2 is 5, that shit is dead wrong. 2 plus 2 is fucking 4. Anyone agreeing to that nonsense that it’s 5 just doesn’t have the guts to call out a lie when they see it. It’s the go along to get along bullshit that keeps people small and living lives of quiet desperation.

Gross. I’m pointing that out because right now, as you are listening to this, my love, there are alarms going off somewhere in your soul saying, Fuckin A. I know I’m meant to be a mom. This depressing shit people are trying to sell me is only part of the story. When I follow my heart, I’m not wrong. And of course, you may say it in a slightly different way, but you catch my drift.

And, let’s take a second, right the fuck now, to zero in on that point. I think you might need a reminder of how right you are. When you follow what’s actually in your heart. I mean the deep shit, sister. The shit that is scary as shit. Feeling like, it kind of feels like the floor may fall out from underneath you when you leap kind of shit.

But it pays off like a motherfucker when you do. We have all had these moments. Dude, I’m telling you, when I opened my mind and stopped acting like a fucking coward in my life, I could see the pattern plain as day. Every time I took a leap that scared the shit out of me, it paid off. And I’m not just talking about bringing my boy here.

I’m talking about in business, faith, and love. It’s crazy. And I’m sure that you have instances. in your life that you have personally experienced where you know this is true. Every time you bet on you, even if shit gets rocky, you know you will be so glad you did as you lay dying at 130 thinking, Damn, I lived one hell of a life.

Take a second to think about when you followed your heart and thought beyond the confines of what was quote unquote reasonable, and that shit paid off majorly. That, my love, is the evidence you’ve got to cling to when you’re learning how to think. Is this making sense? You see, when you stay five cents dominant, you miss a boatload of shit.

You miss a boatload of shit. I was listening to something recently that was saying that what we as humans perceive is only 005 percent of what actually exists in the universe. Through our hubris and self righteous bullshit as humans, we think that our five senses taste, touch, smell, sight, and hearing show us all, and that’s the end all, be all.

To use proper English, It ain’t. Think about how when we were children, so many of us got dumbed down, ushered away from our intuition, connection to God universe source, and shamed for our wild imaginations. Think about that. Think about how many times you were told to color within the lines or shamed for thinking in a way that was so much bigger and thereby inconvenient to your teachers and those around you.

No shade on teachers, because they’re just doing what they were taught. But think about the chain of learned disconnection from something higher. We are often taught to think that the universe is limited to what is directly in front of us, and are taught to think from that perspective. We are taught to make decisions from those artificial limitations.

How many times have you been heckled for your faith, whether it’s by someone else or maybe even your saboteurs, when you have witnessed evidence of it that other people just can’t see? Does that make it any less real? Fuck no! You felt that shit whether others can or not! The bottom line is that God Universe Source operates by natural laws that don’t give two shits.

About our piddly using less than 10 percent of our brain bullshit rules that we as humans have the audacity to create as a former prosecutor. I get the value of and understand why man created laws exist, but you have to see them for what they are. They are for maintaining some level of social order, but they should never extend to the attempts to confine the divine good.

And divine vision held in the human spirit. In my humble opinion, when you learn to think outside of the confines of the patterns you’ve followed out of habit or maybe never even thought to question, as opposed to creating a paradigm of your own conscious choosing, it is no exaggeration, Mama. That the things you truly desire are possible.

This is the essence and key to getting out of your own way. Woman, you’ve got to understand that how you think is creating the experience that you have not only on this journey, but in your life. It has the power to change everything. And here’s an important note before we get to the exercise. It takes humility to evaluate how you think.

It takes your commitment to hold truth over the need to be right. Just let that sink in. It’s not uncommon to close ourselves off to truth. For the false sense of security that comes from the need to be right. Some of us can be so committed to the need to be right that we will completely miss out on the wealth of wisdom that is just waiting for us if we’re willing to open our eyes.

Choose humility over hubris. Every day and twice on Thursday, baby, the payoff is grand. So here’s an exercise to take what I’ve taught you here to the next level. Take an honest inventory of how you think. Step 1. Time to get real, baby! Take an honest look at how you think. Are you using standards of assessment that just don’t apply to this journey?

Do you compare your progress with others? Are you looking solely to the evidence right in front of you to determine how you feel or what you believe is possible? Do you care about what others think or what they might say about the shit you are up to? To the degree that it absolutely skews your decision making?

Be honest here. Think about the examples I gave you earlier. Even the most confident people do have a moment of pause here. But the difference is They may pause, but they don’t stay for dinner or take up residence in that shit pit. Be honest about the janky way in which you think we’ve all been there. Do this with love, not condemnation.

Step two, come clean about your efforts to unfuck this. How many books have you read or free shit have you downloaded thinking that was going to help? But that is where your ass stopped. Take an honest look at whether you have actually done something. With the information you’ve been given. How many episodes of this podcast have you listened to?

Have you actually followed through with the information and insider secrets I’m giving you here? Is it time for you to up your game? Be honest. Because the time to do something about this shit is now, baby girl. There is a new year waiting right around the corner. And you have a decision to make. Will it be more of the same old, same old?

Or will you create results that blow your mind in the new year? And step three, text the link to this podcast episode to someone you think could benefit from it. Screenshot this episode and put it in your Facebook or Insta story tagging me. Share the shit out of this! And while you’re at it, take a moment to give us a five star review.

It will make you feel so good to show your gratitude for this free content my team serve you with. Love, the way you think, how you think through problems, how you think through challenges, and how you think from a place of possibility is critical on this journey. One of the things I hear from women all over the world all of the time is, I’ve wanted to get into your program for a long time.

I’ve stared at that application forever. And then you know what? When they get in, another thing I hear all the fucking time is, why didn’t I do it sooner? This program has changed my life. If you were stuck in that place, the time to act is now. Think about where you could be 12 months from now. If you actually implemented all of the goodness I have been teaching you and the shit you will learn that is 10, 000 times deeper than I could ever go into here.

Take a moment later today, go to my Instagram, go to the testimonial and client love highlight reels. And look at the real women who have created real results on this journey as a result of learning how to think that could be you. Come on. I know you want to send me your piece stick to my fearlessly fertile method program is for women who intend to get pregnant in the next 12 months and say, hell yes, to covering their bases, mind and body.

So you don’t have to look back on this time in your life with regret. I work with women who are committed to success. To apply for your interview for this program, go to my website, www.FromMaybeToBaby.com and apply for an interview there. My methodologies help women around the world make their mom dreams come true.

Their results speak for themselves. If you don’t have a mindset for success in this journey, baby, you got a gaping hole in your strategy and you gotta fix that shit. The time is now to step up, ready for the new year. And ready to absolutely make it your best year ever. Till next time, change your mindset, change your results.

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