EP2: Start Thinking Like A Fertility Journey Success

Are you thinking like a fertility journey success? The way you think may actually be getting in the way of the results you want. Eeek! Learn how to start thinking like a fertility journey success.

Hey gorgeous, if you want success on your fertility journey, you’ve got to have the mindset for it. It’s time to kick fear, negativity, doubt, shame, jealousy, and the whole clown car of low vibe fertility journey BS to the curb. I’m your host, Roseanne Austin, Fertility Mindset Master. Former prosecutor and recovering type A control freak perfectionist, I use the power of mindset to get pregnant naturally and have my baby boy at 43, despite years of fertility treatment failure.

I help women across the globe beat the odds on their fertility journey. Just like I did get ready for a quick hit of confidence, joy, feminine, badassery, and loads of hell. Yes. For your fertility journey, it’s time to get fearless, baby, fearlessly fertile. Let’s do this. Welcome to the fearlessly fertile podcast.

Episode two start thinking like a fertility journey success. Thinking, thinking, thinking. Doesn’t it seem like that’s all we are doing when we’re trying and struggling to conceive? We dissect and agonize over every possible scenario, what if, remote possibility we can. We spend so much time up in our heads, it’s maddening.

But. What if I told you that being caught up in that crazy shit isn’t really thinking at all? You might say to yourself, Roseanne, what the hell are you talking about? I spend all day trapped in my head, strategizing and calculating. How can you tell me that’s not thinking? Well, my love? I am going to respectfully submit that’s not thinking.

In fact, what you are doing is simply replaying, reliving, recycling, and resurrecting the past. Getting bullied by the estimated 70, 000 thoughts we have per day is not thinking, babe. Being caught in that loop is a far cry from the reasoned, whole picture, intellectually honest, critical thinking that will help you achieve success on this journey.

And look, if you find yourself headed straight down the rabbit hole of spinning more often than you desire, trust me, you’re not alone. I know exactly what that’s like. I spent years mired in that bullshit, and I have the battle scars to show for it. That’s why I can speak with unwavering certainty and authority, my love, that there is another Better, smarter way.

You’ve got to start thinking like a fertility journey. Success, and that is what we’re gonna be talking about today. Let’s recap the primary message here. A pointless, negative fear-based, non-strategic thought loop is not really thinking. So what does a smart woman who wants to win on this journey do? She takes control so she can start thinking like a fertility journey.

Success. So let’s talk about it. There’s actually a logical and linear approach to this. The first step, my love, is becoming aware of what you’re doing. The sad fact is we don’t spend much time thinking about our thoughts, much less challenging them. They appear and we just sort of follow them like eager puppies.

Taking control of your mindset and thinking like a success requires that you break that lazy habit. We all do it. There’s also a way out and it all starts with you paying attention And becoming aware that you’re even caught in a thought loop One of the best indicators that you are stuck in a shitty thought loop is noticing how you feel It’s undeniable It is a foolproof way of understanding where your thoughts happen to be at any given moment.

You gotta look To how you feel if you find yourself freaking out feeling negative or generally like crap That’s a sure sign that something’s up, babe. Take notice of the thoughts that you were just having More likely than not you were caught in a negative thought loop replaying the past and reliving shit That well makes you feel like shit pretty straightforward, right?

So make sure that you’re becoming aware of what you’re doing The second step is you want to snap out of the negative loop replaying the past by asking yourself a blazingly simple question What do I really want? This question will instantly interrupt the pattern of replaying the past and allow you to refocus on the goal.

Mama, you are trying to get pregnant and have your baby. This is part of your life purpose. Doesn’t accomplishing this goal deserve better than replaying the oldies and not so goodies from the past? Is ruminating on misery and unfortunate circumstances gonna move you forward on this journey? Or is it just gonna keep you stuck?

Those are questions that I want you to ask yourself, and listen closely for the answer. If you legitimately think that replaying the broken record of the past is getting you somewhere, rock on with your bad self. But having beat the odds on this journey myself at 43, and helping women all over the world do the same, I can tell you with absolute certainty that’s not what women who achieve success on this journey are doing.

They break the pattern and get the hell out of the rabbit hole. Third, ask yourself, If I choose to be a success on this journey, what would I be thinking about? What I love about this question is it honors your uniqueness and inherent personal power. My love, you get to decide what you think about. You get to make your mind your bitch.

Simple as that. Look at what we’re doing here. We are first making you aware of what’s going on. The second step is to ask yourself a smarter question than something like, why me? Why does this always happen to me? And when is my baby coming? By doing that, you immediately break the pattern and put yourself back into control.

And last, you are requiring yourself with the question to think differently. You’re requiring more of yourself than just the lazy thought process, the negativity, the fear, and the doubt that are frankly not going to get you anywhere on this journey. Right? So remember that the Fearlessly Fertile Philosophy, say that fast three times, is about you taking control of your mindset on this journey so you can put yourself squarely on the road to success.

Mindset creates the foundation for success on this journey. There’s nothing woo woo about it. It’s actually quite logical and linear. Your thoughts lead to your beliefs. Your beliefs fuel your actions. And your actions, or inactions for that matter, directly impact your results. It’s plain as day. And this isn’t about blaming yourself or making yourself wrong for looking back on the past.

The past can certainly be a wonderful teacher, but it is absolutely not a verdict and we don’t have to be slaves to it. Okay, this is simply about taking full responsibility, thinking smarter, with more ingenuity, so that you can be successful, my love, that’s what you deserve. And think about it, as a cliche says, you can’t keep doing the same thing over and over again, expecting a different result.

I think some people also claim that was Einstein’s definition of insanity. Well, either way, different results require different thoughts and actions. Boom. Love, if you find yourself struggling with doing this and finding yourself thinking, oh my gosh, I’ll never get to this place, you’ve got to do what smart, professional, well educated, badass women who aren’t going to let anything get in their way do.

You’re going to get help hire a coach. I know a fantastic one think about it There’s no point in trying to reinvent the wheel get farther and faster with the help of someone who has created the success you desire Check out my online courses and private coaching at www. frommaybe2baby. com I can help you make the seemingly impossible possible love Till next time, be fearless and definitely be fertile.

Rosanne offers a variety of programs to help you on your fertility journey — from Self-study, to Live, to Private Coaching.