EP27: Fertility Success Principle #1

In this special Fertility Success Principles episode, we breakdown a key characteristic of women who make the seemingly “impossible,” possible on this journey. This first success principle might surprise you, but every single woman who makes it to the baby-making winner’s circle on this journey has unquestionably demonstrated it. This is something you can apply to your journey TODAY. Share a link to this episode with someone you love!

Hey gorgeous, if you want success on your fertility journey, you’ve got to have the mindset for it. It’s time to kick fear, negativity, doubt, shame, jealousy, and the whole clown car of low vibe fertility journey BS to the curb. I’m your host, Roseanne Austin, Fertility Mindset Master. Former prosecutor and recovering type A control freak perfectionist.

I use the power of mindset to get pregnant naturally and have my baby boy at 43, despite years of fertility treatment failure. I help women across the globe beat the odds on their fertility journey just like I did. Get ready for a quick hit of confidence, joy, feminine badassery, and loads of hell yes for your fertility journey.

It’s time to get fearless baby, fearlessly fertile. Let’s do this. Welcome to the Fearlessly Fertile podcast episode 27, Fertility Success Principles. Hey mama! This week I’m going to share the first in a series of episodes that I have specially called Fertility Success Principles. I’m going to be sprinkling these little tidbits throughout our regular scheduled programming.

Because having beaten the odds on my own fertility journey, despite a ridiculous history of failure, advanced maternal age, and basically having no reason on paper to believe I could actually get to this place, it has become a healthy obsession of mine to study what makes women truly successful on this journey.

While, indeed, every woman’s journey is different, there is no question that there is a throughline, shared characteristics, that unite every woman that I’ve gotten to know who has beaten the odds, regardless of diagnosis, age, profession, where she is in the world, culture, language, you name it. What I’ve learned over 10 plus years of study and experience, I teach to my lovably type A, control freaky, top of their professional game, make no excuses, refuse to be a victim ladies, and I have the absolute thrill of watching them apply what they learn and create their own outstanding successes.

I literally have a front seat with a bird’s eye view on a daily basis to fertility success. It makes me giddy to see my ladies make leaps and bounds on their journey, and the emails and text messages I get with pregnancy announcements, ultrasound photos, and insanely fucking cute bump pics make me literally do a line dance in my office.

Oh my goodness, it is truly a sight to see. In each of these special Fertility Success Principle episodes, I’m going to share a little bit of that with you. You’ve heard me say this before and I will continue to say it because it’s fucking true. Success leaves clues. If you desire success, do what successful people do.

If you don’t know what to do, get a mentor who has created the success you want, has proven they can help other people create that success, and have them teach you what they did. No smart woman wastes her time trying to reinvent the wheel. In this inaugural episode, I want to share with you a principle that is one I’m fairly certain we don’t spend a ton of time thinking about on this journey, but it is foundational.

And it is integrity. Integrity to yourself, integrity to your vision, integrity to your values, integrity to your partnership, integrity to your spirituality. Integrity, integrity, integrity. Integrity is about doing what you say you are going to do. Integrity is about not cutting corners. Integrity is about owning up to your bullshit.

Integrity is about asking for help when you need it. Integrity is about doing the work. Integrity is about putting skin in the game. Integrity is about standing up even when it’s uncomfortable and inconvenient. Integrity is also about being all in for paying the price. For making your dreams come true.

This actually reminds me of something. One of my favorite mentors said, if you aren’t willing to pay the price. You don’t deserve the reward. I love Bob Proctor. When he said that to me, it rocked my world. It’s super hardcore, and I love it. Because it’s the hard truth. Most people don’t really want to hear that.

They want people to feel sorry for them, or pander to their excuses, or just say, They’re there. While it is unquestionably awesome to surround yourself with compassion, to be seen, heard, and supported in the very real truth of your pain, there is a point when, if you are committed to your success, you must get out of that place.

You’ve gotta pick yourself up, dust yourself off, and get the fuck out of the shit pit. Because that is not where you will find your baby. I love you enough! to be straight up about that. Part of the price we pay on this journey can be pain, disappointment, consecutive consistent failures, and periods of time when you’re left in a state of what the fuck?

This shit isn’t necessarily easy, but successful women step up and pay the fucking price. Integrity is about taking full responsibility for seeing your results through to fruition. In the past two weeks, two more of my ladies have announced their pregnancies to me. It’s fucking incredible. I’m going to try not to get misty here, but these women did the work.

They took the principles I teach and applied them with integrity, and now they are reaping the rewards. They learned how to think differently so they could cover their bases and show up like women who win. Listen carefully to what I just said, because it’s not about me, it’s about them. They deserve the credit here.

Indeed, I am the teacher and I am the mentor, but they acted with integrity. They applied what they learned. They stayed consistent. They didn’t back down. And when I think of them, and everything they created, and their stories, I am so incredibly blown away. This? This is exactly why you will not hear me pander to excuses on this journey.

I am tolerant of many things, but I am intolerant of excuses. Because I used to make them myself! I had to pull my head out of my ass and ask if those excuses were going to put my baby in my arms. When I stopped making excuses, bucked up, and started thinking, believing, and acting with integrity, everything about my journey changed.

It’s the same amazing shit I see my ladies do. When they start thinking, believing, and acting with integrity, they break through the blocks. And look, anyone who is actually committed to your success won’t tolerate lame excuses either. When you act with integrity, there are no excuses to be made. Chances are, love, you are already a woman of integrity when it comes to work or other people.

I’m asking you to show yourself and your desire to be a mom the same level of integrity. Show up to this journey in integrity with yourself. What do you value? What do you want to create? Who do you actually want to be? And behave with integrity to that. Everyone else gets to go home. Everyone else gets to live their own lives.

You have to live with you. Integrity, baby. Now here’s an exercise to take this to the next level. Think, believe, and act with integrity. Apply the Fertility Success Principle of Integrity today! When faced with a choice today, or this week, or at some point, take a moment and ask yourself what you really want.

Think about what you truly stand for. Give yourself permission to make a decision with integrity and notice what’s different. Second, text the link to this podcast episode to someone who you think could benefit from it. And my darling, if you are doing everything you can to get pregnant, nothing is working, and you want to be 100 percent sure you have covered your bases, you simply can’t ignore the power of your thoughts and beliefs.

Women who beat the odds on this journey show up to it, mind and body. Does it make any sense to be doing every cutting edge treatment, diet, lotion, potion under the sun, with fear, negativity, doubt, toxic stress, and self sabotage operating in the background, undermining your heroic efforts? Didn’t think so.

My ladies learn how to think like women who succeed on this journey and that’s why they win. Enrollment in my all new Fearlessly Fertile Method program is open. This program is for women who intend to get pregnant in the next 12 months. To apply for your interview to be part of this revolutionary program, go to my website www.FromMaybeToBaby.com and apply for your breakthrough session there.

My methodology has helped women all over the world make their mom dreams come true. Why not you? If you don’t have a mindset for success on this journey, my darling woman, you’ve got a gaping hole in your strategy. Let’s fix that. Till next time, change your mindset, change your results.

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Rosanne offers a variety of programs to help you on your fertility journey — from Self-study, to Live, to Private Coaching.