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I have to admit, I'm still in the afterglow of the French Riviera.

Not just because of the scenery, the food, or the much needed vacay.

My trip gave me an opportunity for some serious quiet time to think and reflect.

The thought and reflection was amplified by being with women who show up in their lives in a completely different gear.

Women who buck labels, defy odds, and take responsibility for their own happiness, thank you very much!

It got me thinking about the years I spent on this journey in powerlessness.

I couldn't help but shake my head at squandering my life in that state.

Absolutely fucking unnecessary, AND could have been remedied by asking a simple question.

Who do you CHOOSE to be on this journey?

Victim?

Martyr?

Bystander?

Toe dipper?

Rebel?

Wise Woman?

The point of asking the question is not to stand in judgment--but, rather to be empowered by choice.

Becoming aware of the woman you choose to be, puts power, and therefore responsibility, back into your own hands--EXACTLY where it deserves to be.

There's no right or wrong answer to the question.

There's simply awareness AND therefore opportunity to make different choices as YOU see fit.

I love you enough to ask the question, so you don't have to waste another minute in a place that isn't serving you.

My ladies don't run from tough questions.

They understand that within their answers lie the gifts of empowerment, choice, and unapologetically awesome badass bitchery.

Decide you will be one of them.

Change your mindset, change your results.

 

 

Intrigued? Here's an exercise to take this to the next level...

Ask the question.

Ask it from a place of love for yourself and the family you desire.

Is the woman you are being presently serving you? Is it time to step back into your power and be the woman you truly desire to be? (This isn't judgment!)

If you aren't excited about the woman you are being, love yourself enough to make a different choice.

Stretch yourself! It's about progress, not perfection.

If you are ready to be the woman who defies the odds, let's talkMy ladies have babies!

*Curious about how YOU can get into the same room with other smart AF, high vibe women on this journey? I will be making an announcement soon about my wine country retreat...!!!*