If you met me 10 years ago, I can assure you that the word miracle was one that rarely, if ever, crossed my lips.
For me, that word was so shrouded in mystery, skepticism, judgment, and impossible standards that while I could intellectually grasp the concept, I didn't think one would ever be in the cards for me.
Other people, who were pious, perfect, and lived in remote hill towns, yes!
The word "miracle" itself conjured such flighty, woo-woo, and airy-fairy connotations in my mind that I routinely (and self-righteously) cast it aside, with a haughty, "I'll place my belief in logic, evidence, and science, thank you very much!"
Then, I spent years wondering why, despite cutting edge science, the perfect diet, and militaristic adherence to every word uttered by any fertility practitioner I could throw money at, no miracle was showing up in my life.
Rosanne, here's a simple shortcut that would have saved me nearly a decade of misery:
To manifest a miracle you must be open to RECEIVE it.
I'm not talking about the kind of expectancy that comes from merely waiting and wanting.
RECEIVING is about believing there is a miracle out there for Y-O-U.
This isn't "positive thinking." It's honest to goodness belief.
Medical, scientific, and anecdotal evidence of the power of belief abounds, which is why mindset is such a critical aspect of manifesting miracles on your fertility journey.
If you are letting fear and negativity dictate what you believe and you aren't getting the results you want, you've got to shift your beliefs. Simple logic, right?
The women I work with across the globe cultivate and live the belief in their miracle--and they have (and will be having) little people who call them Mom because of it. (Seriously, 2017 is going to be landmark year for babies in my coaching practice!)
The exercise below is a starting point. Cultivate your belief this week.
Believe, so you can receive.
Lots of love,
Intrigued? Here's an exercise to take this to the next level...
What suck-worthy beliefs could be standing between you and belief in your miracle?
Bust out your journal or a piece of paper and get to know the line up of B.S. that is getting in your way.
Beating yourself up for past "failures?"
Telling yourself you "shouldn't have waiting so long?"
Punishing yourself for wanting "too much?"
Get these buggers out of your pretty head and onto paper. See them for what they are...half-truths.
You get to believe anything you f-ing want. You can choose to believe there is a miracle out there for you...Because. There. Is.
Acknowledge the stories that are getting in your way and make the decision to do something about them. Want to shake them a hell of a lot faster? Hire a coach.
Close the gap between you and your dream of being a Mom.
Stretch yourself. Remember, it's about progress, NOT perfection.
If this exercise has made a difference in your day, comment and tell me about it. xoxoxo